
I had a typical childhood. I was born in
48, so we didnt watch much TV. All my friends were within a two
mile radius; there were tons of kids. My house was the house where kids
always came over after school to eat because my mom was always home and my
parents were very big on making sure we always had enough food. If it was
raining, I remember getting friends together and wed go out in jeans and
T-shirts and walk and just get soaked- and we just thought it was grand. My
childhood was all about physical exercise and playing. That's just what you did
then. You played until you couldn't see straight. We played Three Flies Up,
touch football, races, hopscotch, tetherball, dodge ball, and climbed on the
monkey bars, to name a few. We would play music and dance. I also remember
walking and riding our bikes as far as we could. There was richness in the
childhood of relationships and outdoor experiences.
I always liked studying. Nobody ever, ever, from day one, ever had to tell me
to do my homework. I did it because I loved it. Loved to learn. A girl a year
older than me had a workbook- piles of workbooks- from her previous year and
she would give them to me. So I erased all of the answers until I bled. Big
calluses formed. I still have the bump today. I erased every book over about a
four-day period so that I could re-do them myself. I didn't want the answers. I
wanted to do it myself. Later, I borrowed the books the older kids had already
used to learn how to cursive write. So I always wanted to learn, always.
We used to have a corner bookmobile that was about six blocks from home. Every
two weeks, I think it was, the librarian would come and she always would pick a
stack of books out for me. I wish I could thank her now. I was too young to
even know who she was. I just know that she'd say, "Oh, Margaret, I think
you're going to like these books," and I would take the next pile home and
pour through it. It was so much fun and she was so kind.
She knew that I liked pioneer stories, stories about Indians, stories about
animals and of course there were all the Nancy Drew mysteries. And she always
went through books and had a pile ready for me. And she didn't just do it for
it for me, that was just how she was. Any kid who wanted to read, she was only
more than happy to help and I couldnt get enough reading.
As a child I was a pack-rat. I always liked collecting things, and I guess some
things dont change. I saved a lot of things from when I was a kid. I have
all my jewelry from when I was in elementary school and junior high, even
though they are really ugly. I saved my all my Girl Scout pins and my Girl
Scout badges. I remember this ugly necklace that my grandmother won in Bingo
that I thought looked so good at the time. It's so ugly, but it was that
costume jewelry. It didn't look ugly then because I thought it was great. I
once got six books that of course I still have. Two of them were called,
"The Gift from the Machado," and "Be My Guide," about a boy
who became blind and how he coped. I still remember it and I haven't read it
for 50 years.
I also saved toys. I still have mint condition toys that I played with like my
Barbie doll and Madame Alexander ballerina doll, both still in the original
box. With my friends, wherever you were, whose ever house you were at, you
brought your dolls over. I just remember my friends always sitting around and
creating little scenarios for the dolls. We thought Barbie was great. She had
big boobs and we thought that was grand!