Celine and Nobu Asano by their daughter Chloe Asano
My travels took me to India, when I got there the monsoon had just started. I stayed in Darmsala, a Tibetan refugee town to study Tibetan Buddhism. In the middle of the summer, a Burmese teacher came to teach meditation. The meditation took place in a resort town up in the mountains overlooking a river, it was quite charming in spite of the real difficulty of sitting cross legged, 10 hours a day. However, it was not difficult for one Japanese man who sat oblivious of anyone.
The bus ride back was fun and relaxing, and when the driver stopped half way to help us stretch our legs, I summoned the courage to talk to this man, asking him where he was heading to, he responded that he had already done a few courses and had now been invited to the next one. He mentioned that he was a student but was not too eager to share too much about his private life. He laughed when I asked him if he was Japanese, and we parted as soon as the bus took off.


Our next encounter was after lunch one day. We crossed paths and I greeted him knowingly, asking him if he had a chance to eat. He shook his head no, and I immediately handed him the apple that I was holding. That is the story of how we met. I asked him for his address at the end of the course, hoping to visit the town he lived in. Another ten-day course took me there, it was the town known as Varanasi and I did look him up. He had already lived there for 4 years studying Sanskrit at the local university. His apartment was a tiny room on a terrace of a house where you could see the sunset over the Ganges River and have crows and monkeys as visitors. It was truly a magical place.
Written by Celine Asano